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FAQs

Do correctional officers hook up with inmates? ›

Unfortunately, inappropriate relationships between correctional officers and inmates do occur.

Because many people are usually visiting, it is important visits are quiet, orderly, and dignified. The visiting room officer can require you to leave if either you or the inmate is not acting appropriately. In most cases, handshakes, hugs, and kisses (in good taste) are allowed at the beginning and end of a visit.

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Most states do not have laws that specifically prohibit inmates from using social media, though all states prohibit them from possessing cellphones — and many inmates access social media using contraband phones. Others rely on a third party to post for them. (Most prisoners do not have access to computers.

Former FCI Dublin correctional officer Ross Klinger enters the Oakland federal courthouse, where he was sentenced to one-year home detention after pleading guilty to having sex with three incarcerated women. OAKLAND, Calif.

Strip Searches in Jail or Prison

Correctional officers have more leeway to order a strip search in a county jail or prison. They can perform a strip search if the search is related to reasonable objectives, such as safety.

Conjugal and Extended Visitation Privileges Are Highly Regulated. To be granted a conjugal visit or extended family visit, generally, both the inmate and visitors must submit applications. Common rules include: requiring that the prisoner seeking such visits have a clean prison record of good behavior and no violence.

It's an unspoken prisoner code to shower with your back against the man next to you to prevent “wandering eyes.” One mistaken glance downwards could indicate you're interested in the other man. Another unspoken code is to give each other personal space. Although we have to shower together, there are boundaries.

Such visits are governed by a California law that prohibits overnight stays to those who have committed violent crimes against family members.

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Can I write in pen to an inmate? ›

Prisons seldom allow crayon, glitter, permanent marker, colored pencils, stickers, paint, or perfume in the letters they receive. It's best to stick to black or blue ink (typed or handwritten) on plain white paper, mailed in a plain white envelope. You can enclose photos or drawings that are 8 x 10 inches or smaller.

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Prison sexuality (or prison sex or penitentiary sex) consists of sexual relationships between prisoners or between a prisoner and a prison employee or other persons to whom prisoners have access. Since prisons are usually separated by sex, most sexual activity is with a same-sex partner.

San Francisco has been distributing condoms to inmates in county jails for decades, but a new California law requires condoms to be made available to all state prisoners. California is the second state after Vermont to do so, even though sex between prisoners is unlawful here.

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A: In California, there are no specific laws that prohibit correctional officers from dating former inmates once they have been released from custody. However, such relationships are often discouraged or prohibited by department policies due to potential ethical concerns and conflicts of interest.

CO (correctional officer) is the most common. 'Yo CO' or 'hey CO' are common usages. The second most common is their last name. And that's how they address you if they know you or used in conjunction with the last two of your prison ID number.

Briefly stated, most federal courts permit correctional employers to limit relationships between correctional employees and offenders/ex-offenders.

The inmate will say things like “You're more like us than them.” This builds a subtle, but false level of trust between the inmates and the officer. Manipulative inmates want to appear trustworthy so the correctional officer turns to the inmate for support, rather than the officer's peers.